Sigh..pray for me :(

[epdc]

Is my big sister again. Well, you know she got married blablabla.I won`t tell the story again for the new ones

Well, her husband always hit her. Right now she is with us. She is seriously damaged, her eye is purple (for fifth time i think), he kick her back so her spine hurts her. she has some knife injures in her face. Sigh, I just can`t talk about it...

My mom and my little sis went to his house to pick up her stuff and he didn`t want to give them. Mely fought with him (not with the hands but yelling ya know), my mom decided to leave and pick up things tomorrow or when my dad arrives (on saturday).

Guys, I`m so sad. I`m so full of stuff right now, I have had bad headaches lately, I have been stress at school and stuff and now this. We really pray she stays this time and don`t come back with him.

I know I know, all this has happened because she made a decision but still hurts ya know, to see her like that. And worst is that I can`t stop. I have school, I have communitie service, I have ministry, my german classes, homeworks, I can`t sti down, I have to carry this sadness and keep doing what I have to do. Man, I`m very depress.
My mom canpt stop either, she has her mastery, her job, everything....

Oh guys, I feel so sick, like I wanna puke ya know. Please pray for my family, that we can get through this and Gina don`t come back with him.

Sigh, there`s so much I wanna talk with someone, there`s so much I wanna said but Is too terrible that I just can`t say it, I don`t dare to say it because it hurts

[Shell]

Aw, that has really been a trial for you, I'm sorry you're having to deal with this again sweetie. E-mail me.

One thing you should keep in mind: You're sister is a big girl, and until she decides for herself to get out of that bad situation, there's not a lot anyone can do for her. Don't put your life on hold for her, you just keep going to school. She needs to wake up before something terrible happens, and nobody can force her to do that.

[reoracer]

You and your family are in my prayers...

Jen

[Metallinostheos]

I will too, Elo.

[seichu kaisho]

Prayin' fo' yu

[epdc]

thanks for your prayers

The guy called my mom today. He says he has had temperature since then and that feels terrible (he is alone ya know), he insists he didn`t hit her. Or he is lying or he has a mental problem. I don`t know. He says he wants to talk to our pastor my mom told him that he won`t see my sis until he talks to our pastor and when we see him different ya know.

I also feel bad for him because he has so much problems ya know, he is a sick person and we were his only support ya know.

Though my sis hurts really bad. Her head has been hurting her ya know. Man, for first time I saw dead so close, so real ya know. He could had killed her....

I pray he gets better but I also pray they won`t get together again. That would be sick.

thank you for your support, I really need it right now.

[LexingtonPethead]

Elo, I'm very sorry about this situation. That is a horrible nightmare for anyone to go through. I can only imagine how upsetting this is to you and to the rest of your family. I will pray for you, your sister and her husband, that God will reach him.

[epdc]

sigh, thank you, man, I really need it. Can`t wait for this semester to be over,

[SamScales]

Elo,

Your whole family has been through the wringer lately! Man, that's so tuff and you tend to carry so much on your shoulders. Try to roll all that over on the big shoulders of Jesus, He will carry your burdens. I know it's easy for me to say that, cos when I have a burden I tend to carry it too and keep worrying - but so often God has brought me comfort through someone touching my life. So I'm gonna pray:

Dearest Lord Jesus,
Thank You for Your tender care that you give to all of us when we hurt. Thank You for being aware of everything that goes on in our lives and for not putting anything on us that we can't handle.
Lord, I want to lift up Elo first of all, because she has so much going on with her school, ministry, homelife etc. that she feels so overwhelmed.
Please show yourself so real to her and let her physically feel Your arms around her. May she dwell in the shadow of Your wings!
Gina, that you would get through to her touch her heart Lord, so that she will hear Your voice and respond willingly to You reaching out to her.
Give her wisdom not to go back to that abusive situation and protect her from harm and hands that violate her. Put a hedge of protedtion around her and help her wounded heart to heal. Show her Your precious love as You hold her and soothe her pain and may she feel this ever so physically in her life right now. She needs You, Lord, and so we pray that You would answer quickly.
For her husband, that he would get help and that he would recognize that he needs help, desires this help and cries out to You and surrenders his life and his heart totally to you and through counselling with a Christian counsellor he might be pointed to the right way. Lord, only YOU can make a mean man to be the most tender loving and caring person in the whole wide world. We pray that You would do that for him!
May He put on Christ and discard the uglyness inside of him. Set him free Lord from the bondage of abuse.
Encourage Elo's parents and comfort them in this time as they see their daughter suffer and the sisters being so sad........
Pull the famiily together stronger as ever and transform lives!
In Jesus Name I humbly pray.......AMEN

[Pethead1]

Elo, I am very sorry that you are going through this. I will be praying for you. If you need anything just email me and let me know.
I love you, Debbie

[epdc]

Thank SAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11you prayer really lifted me up!!!!!!

Debbie, I got your message about "it went well" I`ll answer it as soon as i can.

[SamScales]

You're welcome....any time, Elo.
I'm so glad that the Lord lifted you up! I know this is tuff right now.

[seichu kaisho]

Are your sister's wounds healing?

[epdc]

thanks for asking her head hurted her for a couple of days and was kind of dizzy but she is better now. the wounds (ya know, purple wounds, i don`t know the english word) on her back are healing too, also her eye, is getting the normal color again...


though, wanna hear something sad? she got back with him. and ya know what else is sad? that he didn`t call her and begged her to get back, she just went back with him like aaaalways

my family got very very discouraged, but there`s nothing we can do. she just left and didn`t tell us where she was going, she didn`t go back so that means she is with him.

my parents talked about it and ya know, she stills has her bedroom here and a copy of our house keys, she has come once in a while since she got married and stuff.

My parents are sick of tired of seeing her coming all hurted so when she comes again they will take away her keys and we are gonna pack all the things she has here so when she comes again she takes everything. My parents will tell her that fine, that she goes with him but that doesn`t look for us again, unless she wants to visit and the livingroom is the onlyt hing she will see. that if he hits her and stuff that stay there (since is obvious she doesn`t wanna leave him then, why is she coming and making us all get worry for seeing her all hurt knowing that she will go back with him?).
and besides, we don`t wanna see that guy again...

and they are right, this last week I was very stress for seeing her all hurt and now she `s back, COME ON, he even told her he was going to kill her!!!! man

ya know what? i`m sick and tired of her, she has been a pain since I can remember, it hurts but if he kills her fine, we will bury her and will put him in jail for all life and that`s it!!!!.

My mom even told her before she left: Gina, if you go with him again, fine, I might have to bury you but oh well, I can`t stop you, is your decision, you are an adult now (she is 29).

man wish i could understand her logic...

[Shell]

That is really sad that she would go back to him after all that, but it's her decision and she will end up paying for it. She has to want help before anyone can do anything for her. E-mail me if you need to.